The Captain has been varying in mood and irritability. We can definitely say he is better than he was before the risperdal, but he still has his moments, and quite a few of them.
On Tuesday, we discovered that he has been blackmailing his brother for an undetermined time (a while). Apparently he would hold any slipped swearing or other indiscretions against him, promising to tell me about it unless his brother lied to me about the fact that they were both playing with a certain neighborhood kid they weren’t supposed to be around.
Both of them lost the privilege of independence – the ability to go to the park or convenience store, etc., by themselves. For the blackmailing portion, I said we would talk to the psychiatrist since we had an appointment the next day anyway.
The Doctor prescribed a new regimen for discipline. No more punishments! Really, it was just a re-wording of discipline. He said that they have the clothes on their back and three square meals a day, and everything else is a privilege they need to work for. Also, no video games/TV/etc. during the week – only on Saturday (not Sunday), and only if they’ve earned enough points, and even then, only for a limited time. He suggested a half hour.
Also, he said to lock up food treats, so we got a lock for the fridge and for one cabinet door.
The Captain took this surprisingly well. Amazingly well. I think it must be because it was coming from a higher authority source in his mind – The Doctor. His brother made a scowly face, but accepted it well, too.
The part about points was a little vague, so we stayed up late last night trying to determine what gets points, and how many points they are worth, and how many points are needed for the electronics privileges on Saturday.
The Doctor also recommend a two-week reward and a four-week reward if the previous time was judged to be good… I’m not sure how that fits in with the point system exactly yet.
What The Doctor doesn’t realize, because it’s never come up, or we’ve avoided bringing it up, is that these boys are oversaturated in video games and computers and movies. Up until this point, they’ve largely been unschooled, due to the problems we’ve had with The Captain trying to implement a true curriculum.
Today, they begin with a more regimented schedule, with Spectrum workbooks for math, science, writing, vocabulary, and geography, as well as multiplication and division flash cards, and U.S. state flash cards. We also got a game that teaches about human anatomy. This is not the ideal curriculum – this is the cheap curriculum to get them used to structure.
For fear of them literally not having anything to do, and rebelling from the whole system out of boredom, we also got them new lego sets and some playing cards.
Last night, The Captain spent the night at Grandma’s, who has been apprised of the situation, while The Explorer stayed home. Each will have their chores and schoolwork separately, and perhaps that will help ease them into this transition.
Meanwhile, The Doctor added guanfacine back into The Captain’s regimen, starting a 1mg for the first week, followed by 2mg the next, 3mg the next, and finally 4mg. Thus, he is now on 3mg of risperdal + 1mg of guanfacine, and 5mg of melatonin at night.
I’m at work, but look forward to hearing how their days went.
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